Meet the Marriage Killer
It's more common than adultery and potentially as toxic according to experts. It's nagging. Nagging can be destructive, but as damaging as adultery?! I’m not buying that. I would rather have my wife nag than hook up with my best buddy.
Elizabeth Bernstein of the Wall Street Journal wrote a very intriguing column on nagging. We interviewed Bernstein and you can hear it here.
There’s not a lot of nagging in my marriage. But I think I am guilty of nagging my kids. I have two college girls and I feel like I have to ask them everything a thousand times. And I think they must feel that way too. I get a lot of, “Dad, I know.” I feel like I wouldn’t have to nag if they listened better. Maybe I need to give them a little more space on that. Patience hasn’t always been my strong suit.